07-25-2012, 05:26 PM
Join Date: Jun 2012
| | Re: My Wife Left Last Tuesday
STOP!!!!! do not send her anything else! you need to stop thinking about it. put a rubber band around your wrist and every time you think about calling/texting/emailing her, snap yourself with the band. i know you're in the initial freak out and obsess phase but the sooner you can move out of this phase, the better. the worst thing you can do is contact her right now. imagine her sitting smuggly thinking "he's going to freak out when i don't respond. i bet before he goes to bed tonight i'll get another message from him!"
prove her wrong.
you need to be strong and NOT contact her. she will have to contact you eventually if she wants to see her kids, and on what she's currently earning, she will also be asking you for money soon. right now YOU are in control, and she probably doesn't like it.