Originally Posted by Sadwithtwolittlegirls
I just talked to her friend Lynda. I guess my wife didn't like the note I sent her yesterday spelling out the visitation. I guess she said it was too "hard handed".
What the heck did she want me to do...
I guess she contradicted herself saying it was over but said other things to make her think it isn't.
Lynda told her that we need to sit down and talk this out together..
Also.. she didn't leave because of someone else. She just left.
No. "Hard Handed" is when you pack your things and walk out on your husband/kids and only leave a note. That is hard handed.
You are just being a responsible, mature adult protecting your children from having the rug pulled out from under your feet again.
And maybe she is telling the truth about no one else. I find it hard to believe but do recognize that some people actually do leave for other reasons.
She owes you those reasons. Most ppeople work out their problems in a marriage with their spouse.
If you are not the issue and she cannot care for her children she really needs to go and speak wtih a psychologist.
Do not take any BS from her.
This is your family and marriage you are fighting for.
And no matter what demand the truth.
Listen to your attorney. Start making your wife pay to support the kids at the minimum. And send her some job postings for full time positions. That works both ways my friend.