07-25-2012, 10:43 AM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | Re: The 180
Originally Posted by Orange1
I do understand what the 180 is. I know its about bettering myself and taking control of my life. So I guess the problem she is having is it looks as if I'm moving on with life without her so now she doesnt have the comfort of knowing she could come back whenever and now her best bet is to call me names. I would have to say since I ve been following these rules everyday I go a little more not thinking about her. Got a long road ahead because the pain is still outweighing the relief.
Thanks, everyone. The 180 is good advice. I agree, Orange, its about bettering yourself and taking control of your life. That's what's keeping me going. The little steps toward controlling my own life do help me feel better. But you're right, it is a long road. we can only hope that one day the relief will outweigh the pain.