07-31-2012, 07:43 PM
Join Date: Jun 2011
| | Seperated 7 months - Accusing me of seeing someone else -SO?
Have been seperated 7 months now. Obviously sad at the start and still is everynow and then. Ill give ex wife credit, we have been pretty civil to eachother and shared parenting responsibilities with our daughter.
But the last few weeks she is starting to lose it i think, again.
+ Working back late quite often and picking up daughter late when she knows i have to scoot off to work myself or go to training.
+ Trying to start an argument over stupid things on changeover of daughter, i wont let her.
+ NOW LAST NIGHT HAS LOST THE PLOT AT ME ON FACEBOOK TELLING ME, WHO AM I SEEING, SHE KNOWS I HAVE SOMEONE ELSE, WHO AM I SLEEPING WITH ETC. I told her not that it should matter but no one and not sleeping with anyone, but if i were would you like to know or vice versa. SHE GOES OFF TAP SAYING I HAVE MOVED ON QUICK AND SHE KNOWS IN HER HEAD IM FOOLING AROUND WITH SOMEONE ELSE, to which i again i said im not but maybe we need to stit down and discuss this in case one of us does because i dont want her reacting like this again. SHE GOES ON TO SAY, SHE THINK I AM BECAUSE I DIDNT LET HER USE MY PHONE ON THE WEEKEND TO SEND A MSG.
As the topic says though, So? what if i was having sex with someone or dating somone else, its been 7 months. I am not but i am going to start going on dates. SO what.
How should i handle this, or should i tell her to go and get thucked. then things can get messy