Said "Mommy" needs to put a foot in said "son's" a$$ I know that no one is responsible for someone elses actions, but how can you stand by and watch your son continuously let his children down?!
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Actually, his mom did the same thing for his older brother and his 13 kids... yes 13. Mommy paid the child support and told him to just stay away from each and every one of them and he did. I spoke to my ex BIL's first Ex last night and she went through the exact same thing as me in regards to their mother... don't ask me. I think my EMIL may have issues...
She paid CS for 13 kids?! HOLY LOTS OF BAD WORDS INSERTED HERE!
WOW. You'd have thought by 3 the BIL would have figured out that that little weapon he's using is loaded...
I'm scared to even ask how many "Baby Momma's" a BIL w/13 kids these days has...assuming he's not related to the Duggar's on TLC.
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"Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind, from the day we met to the very last night, and it's just too bad, you've already had the best days, the best days of your life..."
But its day number 3 that STBX has blown off our son. This is day 3 this week, its day 14 total in 3 months, He has seen him 3 times since Easter and says I am keeping him from seeing our son. Total BS, I'm here with our child ready and he never shows and never answers his phone.
So he called me yesterday stating he was too busy to stop by and pick up our son this past week and would like to take him thursday til friday. Deep down I don't trust him, especially after he introduced his new gf to our son. I asked him to refrain from bringing the OW around for now so our son doesn't get confused. He got angry and then told me he met her at work and they've been together for 4 months... now I did the math, that's 1 month LONGER than our seperation. I'm highly annoyed by this news.
Keep records of all set and missed visits...will come in handy. I'd be annoyed by said 4 month news as well.
I'm so sorry your son has to go through that...what a disappointment.
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Its been quite some time since my last update and I wanted to say thank you to you all for your support and help. My husband filed for divorce and was kicked out of his mother's home. I have also since moved on and ended up finding a special someone who was right under my nose for 3 years... kids are happy, I am happy... dunno about my ex because I don't ask. All in all, everything is looking up. I've been trying like crazy to find a job, but considering my home and the economy here well, I may be out of luck for a while. Once I do find the right job everything will just fall into place. Thanks again to all of you! You are all in my thoughts and prayers...
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"Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind, from the day we met to the very last night, and it's just too bad, you've already had the best days, the best days of your life..."