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Old 06-25-2009, 07:35 PM   #61 (permalink)
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Chin must be up therefor the beer can enter...I'm enjoying liquid therapy to my heart's content this evening nothin stoppin it, I planned for it, I'm doin it, going to drown my sorrows in it and maybe later I'll write about what happened this morning.

You guys mean so much to me, thank you so much for your support and "therapy"

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Old 06-25-2009, 07:49 PM   #62 (permalink)
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Hugs! Crying in beer totally allowed tonight!
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Old 06-25-2009, 07:55 PM   #63 (permalink)
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Hopefully it doesn't water down my alcohol d*mnit!
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Old 06-25-2009, 08:01 PM   #64 (permalink)
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Reading ur last few posts breaks my heart. I know all too well this feeling and just reading ur sadness brings back how I feel and have felt the past six months and it's a horrible feeling. I can't help but think that us woman who are suffering now and have stbx's that are livin it up, that we will someday very soon be the happy ones who have gotten over the pain and are internally more happy than ever and our stbx's will be livin with a painful life of regret and sadness that they gave up the best thing and they realized it too late. Either way girl, You have every right to drink and I think you deserve it and bless your broken heart. All this suffering won't be wasted! Just give it some time and cry and then cry some more until you start to feel better. Good luck to you
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Old 07-01-2009, 06:52 PM   #66 (permalink)
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My wife is doing to me exactly what your husband did to you. Never spoke to me about problems, never went to couseling, blames me for everything, wont talk to me, wont work on us, acts like this whole thing is just a day in the life, only thinks about herself and her needs not mine or my kids. Sorry you are dealing with this I know how it hurts.
Sounds oddly similar to my situation
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Old 07-02-2009, 03:34 PM   #67 (permalink)
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I'm about ready to start drinking with ya Rhea!
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Old 07-02-2009, 07:00 PM   #68 (permalink)
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Hey TMT, kegger at KK's house! I need to come here and post how the big D day went...I'm working up to it. Just don't feel like talking about it at the moment. Maybe later this evening. It's been a week I could probably do it now...maybe.
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