Husband and I have been officially separated for a while now. We got all the financial and custody issues worked out and are trying our best to be civil towards each other, but not talk as much as possible.
Horror story strung short, he's always been a bit of a flirt and gave up when we moved in together. Just about 8 months after we got married, he started having an EA with a girl he used to know and lied saying he wasn't talking to her. He then lied multiple times after that saying that he hasn't been talking to her, but the texts and cyber sex kept going. Our relationship has been destroyed for some time and as of last month he decided to make it their relationship official by planning to move near her. We got separated, he is happy about it, I'm not.
So, my period is weeks late and then just very very light spots. I'm thinking "oh, no way, that's impossible..." and blew off the thought of being pregnant. We already have one child, but we had all the custody work done for him... Now the problem is, I just found out I'm pregnant. I have no clue if I should even tell him that I'm pregnant since he wants to be free with who he declares is "just a friend".
So, what do you think? Should I even tell him that I'm pregnant or just completely ignore the issue and raise both the kids without his help? I do not need any child or financial support help, I'm fine on that.
Horror story strung short, he's always been a bit of a flirt and gave up when we moved in together. Just about 8 months after we got married, he started having an EA with a girl he used to know and lied saying he wasn't talking to her. He then lied multiple times after that saying that he hasn't been talking to her, but the texts and cyber sex kept going. Our relationship has been destroyed for some time and as of last month he decided to make it their relationship official by planning to move near her. We got separated, he is happy about it, I'm not.
So, my period is weeks late and then just very very light spots. I'm thinking "oh, no way, that's impossible..." and blew off the thought of being pregnant. We already have one child, but we had all the custody work done for him... Now the problem is, I just found out I'm pregnant. I have no clue if I should even tell him that I'm pregnant since he wants to be free with who he declares is "just a friend".
So, what do you think? Should I even tell him that I'm pregnant or just completely ignore the issue and raise both the kids without his help? I do not need any child or financial support help, I'm fine on that.