My wife and have separated and she now lives in another town. I drove there to see her and her ex's car was there. I know my wife is not any early riser. It was 8:00 in the morning. She said she was borrowing it and that neither one of them was there. Her car was broken down. How come it is so hard for her to admit she has been cheating. Months before our separetion I found a reciept for a motel room. She said she got it so she could relax.