06-09-2009, 07:56 PM
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: mountain west
| | Re: Separated..and hating it!!
boy. that "get counseling" thing i agree with 100 percent. and when you go, be completely honest. include the reason you are there. make mention of the fact that you want your spouse to come back. tell your counselor that is your goal, to become a person your spouse can be with, maybe write down what you've posted here. over time, try to include your spouse in counseling. i have, with limited success. you'll find that one person in the relationship is more invested in making it right. that person might as well be you. and never, never, never, never, never, never, never, never, never give up. it's going to try your patience.
separated, honoring wife and family daily, she deserves the best me i can give her.
4 kids g18, g12, g11, b7