My name is Don
. I am 59. Her name is Michele, 32.
We started dating 11 months ago and fell in love. She has some mental issues. 50 texts in one day, insisting on a baby, while she has 3, all from different men.
So in February, after enduring her continued rants and cussing rages with her 4, 8, and 12 year old, I started to look elsewhere. Don't get me wrong, she is beautiful, but a b----!
After finding out we are pregnant, and me acting like an idiot for 3 months, and leaving because she is a toughie and I am a soft hearted man, I find myself living in an apartment 2 miles away from here home. (she wanted me here). And now what used to be 2 times a day is now once a week. Not feeling the love here. I have never been unfaithful. Just could not take the yelling and cussing.
I do love her and have been trying ever since I left to have her open her heart again but because her first man rejected and beat her, and her dad beat her also, she has switched to indifferent and tells me to find another woman. Repeatedly.
Before I throw in the towel, I visited her shrink last week and acknowledged my bad attitude previously and explained I would try no matter what to get her back.
She tells me it cannot happen overnight, and maybe never. Just says she in indifferent now.
So, 1- Do I keep trying?
2-Let go and be another departe dad like the other 3?
3-Take her advice and start looking.