Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Southeast Georgia
Re: Point of no return..yet still sad?!
You need to start respecting yourself. Stop chasing him, stop calling, texting, emailing etc. Read the 180 and follow it. He is using you. Don't contact him, not even about the kids, sounds like he won't help you anyway. File for divorce and get child support. If you need money now go to children services and get food stamps and tanif. They will go after him for child support. It is better to get child support and not tanif but if he won't pay you don't have a choice. But you have to remember the pain you are feeling right now if he tries to come back. He will leave again he has already proven it. It is better to cut the ties now once and for all, think of the kids the older they are the harder it will be on them. Also do you want your ds growing up thinking it is okay to be treated the way he treats you. Do you want you sons to learn to abuse their women like that. Get tough and stay tough. Keep chatting on here let us help you. I'm praying for you
People think that the most painful thing in life is losing the one you value. The truth is the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of valuing someone too much and forgetting that you are special too.