Re: So confused please help!!
My wife said the same thing. That I would fix it and it would go right back to how it was, but I told her "How will you know if you don't give it a chance?".
She just responded she can't do it and that it's not there anymore.
I've done everything to try to get my wife to give me another chance and nothing has worked.
I know it's something you don't want to hear, as I did not want to hear it when I first came to this site. But if she is emotionally checked out there is no getting her back. Begging and pleading doesn't work (I've tried), doing nice gestures doesn't work (I've tried waiting for her outside work with flowers and have flowers delivered as she was at work).
Nothing works, there's no changing their mind, there's no way to make them give you a second chance. It's all up to them whether they want to or not. My advice to all who are in the same boat as me is to start the 180.
Start doing things that make you happy and keep your mind off of her and sadly to say but prepare for the worse and don't give yourself false hope as it will save yourself a lot of heart break over and over (I learned the hard way).