Need advice- he's having emotional affair
The best thing my ex did for me is to divorce me. I caught her cheating with a mutual friend, she had been supposedly consoling after his marriage went south, he cheated on his ex as well. I caught them, by secretly following her, she filed, I moved out, & that was it. No remorse, no keeping me around so I could constantly have to spy on her, check her phone etc. Life is too short to have to play detective. It was brutal but much better to move on.
We weren't even separated. Being separated, I can bet he is doing quite a bit. I wish you luck but you can do better. I've always believed once someone strays, they've made their choice?