I need an advice regarding a divorce.
My STBX said to me on the phone that she needs to talk to me. After i insisted to know what she wants to talk about, she said divorce. I hate that word.
So I said OK. But since she couldn't make it to our appointment we ended up talking on the phone about it.
She suggested shared child custody. I agreed. She suggested we file for divorce peacefully. I agreed. That is the way I wanted it too, shared custody and peaceful divorce. I am not for divorce but she wants it so it is best if we can come to an agreement.
I must say I don't trust her a bit but I will do all I can to avoid any conflicts.
So one of us has to file for divorce. She says we can include child custody in the divorce package but I refuse because I want to do it separately. Until our divorce would be granted we have to wait 2 more months (1 year) but we can start doing the paper work anytime.
Also for the child custody there are several options but I want to go with the one that has a court order so she can't screw me later.
But when we take the divorce forms, we do not want a lawyer, we just want to fill it out and file. My question is: What kind of form is it? What questions are there? What needs to be put in there?
We have nothing to share except her debt that I am willing to pay half. So is that form going to be complicated, how many pages it contains etc?
The kit costs $35 and filing fee is $200
Last edited by Harris; 09-09-2009 at 03:33 AM.