Re: wife has filed for divorce!!
I hope so, Mikey. In the meantime, keep working on yourself FOR YOURSELF. If you changed "for her," then it isn't "real," and your chances of relapsing eventually are very strong--and she may not give you another chance, if she comes back this time only to find herself in the same boat some time down the road. In fact, she'll be older and more willing to walk away, and angry, too, that she let you "fool her."
The only REAL change is one you do for yourself.
And please do not assume that just b/c you have finally changed, she WILL comeback. There is a point of no return in each of us. No telling if she has reached it--only she will figure that out. Be prepared, either way, to be a better, happier person--with or without her. Take care of yourself! Good luck.