12-28-2009, 06:10 PM
Join Date: Aug 2009
| | Re: The REAL world
I agree with D8zed.
If you want to have a get together with your ex, you need to realize that he may not give you the reaction you are looking for. Meaning that he may come to your beach party, act weird, get drunk, and then start talking about how great it will be to date again once your divorce is finalized.
Not trying to shock you or be mean here. At this point, I think it's safe to say you don't know how he'll react.
You may be looking for an evening where you'll reflect on your 25 years of marriage and pledge to continue your friendship.
If you're okay with this, proceed. If not, reconsider.