02-09-2010, 08:54 PM
Join Date: Aug 2009
| | Re: I think I belong here now
K, I think you're right. My H said several times during our marriage that he always admired the fact that I was so independent and mature. He said I always knew how to handle things. This impressed him. I am sure that he is now feeling lost and doesn't know who to turn to.
However, this is what he wanted. I am no longer responsible for his problems, concerns and issues. I am not his wife and I told him repeatedly that I wouldn't be his friend.
Tonight I got an email from him telling me congrats on becoming an aunt. I never told him that my brother and sister-in-law were expecting. This had to hit him hard knowing that he could have been an uncle. Or maybe not. Whatever.
I don't understand his attempts to be friendly towards me. In one email he is accusing me of ruining his life and making him go broke but in the next he congratulates me on becoming an aunt. Does he think I'll just excuse his piss poor behavior over the last 6 months??