11-05-2009, 03:42 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 280
| Re: I think I belong here now
I swear I'm about to pull out my hair!
I sent my H an email yesterday asking about the status of the house and our cars. I told him I'd like to remove my name from our home mortgage, which means he'll have to refinance the house in his name.
He asked me why I was in such a hurry to do this and if I was worried that he would stop paying and leave me in charge of the mortgage payments. I told him that I know he's a good person (at least I think) but I don't know the person he is today and that I was doing what I thought was best for me. Besides, I don't want to have a mortgage linked to my credit report if I decide to buy a house somewhere down the road.
Apparently this pissed him off because he replied with: "I am the same person I always have been."
HA!!!!! Seriously!?!
I want to reply with this: Same person, huh?
Well the D I knew would be devastated to come home to an empty house. The D I knew would work on our marriage and sort through our issues. The D I knew would've realized we had issued and did something about them. The D I knew would support me in my new job, care about my hopes and dreams and worked with me to accomplish our shared hopes and dreams. The D I knew would've invited me to the football game 3 weeks ago. The D I knew wouldn't have told me "I'm looking at girls differently now."
And overall: the D I knew would be absolutely devastated over the fact that we are no longer going to share our life together!!!
Should I hit send? Or should I focus on moving on?
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