Yes, I could forgive, but she would need to change herself. Sometimes I wonder if I should have been more forceful when I discovered she was having at least an EA. I told her I didn't like the contact and that it bothered me. I didn't tell her to stop because of course that would be controlling? I told the guy to stop it too later.
Wren, all the way to the coast down east or Fayetteville?
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Not that far east, Raleigh is only a 30 min. drive.
I don't know if I could trust after affairs, especially if the marriage was damaged prior to that information. I hate it for you FA. It doesn't make sense.
My brother lives in Raleighwood as he and I like to call it. I lived in Apex for a year so know the area a little. I'm down in the Queen City.
Well it was damaged prior. I was damaged, she was damaged and sometimes I wonder if her actions were a cry for help or for me to just say -- stop or I'm gone.
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You guys are making me hungry! and jealous - wish I was somewhere near you guys with a car and a tank full of fuel - it really is like fanatsy land - talking to characters out of a book -
Well, the question to Wren is a big debate here in North Carolina. Or as I say North Cakalaki. It is all pork based barbecue. At least my favorite, Lexington, NC style barbecue is slow cooked over hickory wood. They serve it pulled or chopped, with fries, deep fried hush puppies and sweet tea. The tea is so sweet its like they pour a pound of sugar in a pitcher. Used to drink the sweet tea, but don't anymore.
The first time I went to Lexington, NC I live in PA. My fathers friend moved here and we visited. We went out for "barbecue" and I was thinking ribs or something cause that is northern. When they asked me pulled or chopped I'm sure I looked like a dumb idiot. I was like huh? Now I know better. The first place I went to turns out to be famous around her -- who knows that when you are 8.
By the way, just for the record here in Charlotte, NC we have one of this countries best fried chicken places. Named top 3 on AMC and Food and Wine magazine. Called Price's chicken coop. Deep fried chicken, with deep fried tater tots. UMMMMMMMMMM.
Only about a mile from my house. I think I know what I'm having for dinner tomorrow. No sit down in this place, only carry out and if you ever watched Seinfeld, think soup nazi service at the counter. Better know what you are ordering or NEXTTTTTttt
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This all sounds delicious - am definitely coming for a visit one day you guys - don't see any reason why I can't - now I am footloose and fancy free...
I don't make my way to NC to often in fact very rare. I am up in NJ.. I do pass through in flight when I head to FL.. I might be moving the family their soon. Wife went from not wanting to be with me to moving to Florida with me and moving away from all her family. Kind of odd... Still it's the best move for us.. It's scary but financially we will be a ton better and the stress will be cut in half... Question now is if I can sell this house..
LH, NC is a nice place to live. You still get the climate changes, but less winter and fall and more spring and summer. You've got the coast and the mountains so it has a lot to offer.
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I agree about that.. It's just we are used to our northern type of living. Everything close by and Florida is like the north but warmer.. We are looking in the area just above Orlando..
What's NC stand for? I am lost - I was lucky enough to go to the states with my job a couple of years back - but only New York...not that I am complaining...but you guys are making me curious..
LH, I grew up as a boy in Detroit, Western Maryland, and Pittsburgh. So I get what you mean by everything being close by, but this is the new south. IF you live in Raleigh or Charlotte, pretty much everything is close by. The advantage Raleigh has over Charlotte is you can get to the coast a lot quicker. But then if you love the mountains more, Charlotte is closer. Plus there is always Asheville, NC which is its own sort of place.
I hope Disneyworld has season passes for you LH.
I just want to stay here in NC. Would love to live in Wilmington on the coast. Its a beautiful little place.
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We are looking in the area just above Orlando..
