10-30-2009, 11:09 PM
Join Date: Apr 2009
| | Re: Decision to be made
If you have had no counseling at all, I would suggests at least a few sessions before you go making life-changing decisions without some kind of outside perspective.
I agree with the others that, if the other man was not part of the reason you and your husband separated, I would back off from that one. 20 years is a long time. If there is any chance you and your husband can work things out, you don't need another man in the mix. And, if there is no chance you and your husband can work it out I would still suggest counseling and being on your own for a bit.
My two cents - good luck with your decisions!