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Old 12-15-2009, 10:36 PM   #46 (permalink)
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OK but ur just draggin urself thru da mud longer sorry u cant feel or got closure like i do good luck with everything man
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Old 12-21-2009, 03:36 PM   #47 (permalink)
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update. I went to meet her for coffee friday night.



she was hungry so we went to the food court in the mall. she picked on me for starting my shopping so soon! lol told me i looked good commented that she liked my shirt. picked on me about the grey hair i have now.



we spent about four hours together shopping and talking. I never brought up our relationship. she has a new job that she loves helping kids. so she is no longer depressed and seems very happy. she was bouncing around like i haven't seen her do in quite a while.



she hugged me and told me i am too skinny. i have lost 20 pounds since june (alot of that i attribute to drinking diet soda). i asked her too call me and she said she would on christmas eve.



her new job had her working like 80 hours a week.



I guess i shouldn't get my hopes up.



I asked if she would like to go to a hockey game and she said she would like that (we have never gone as a couple).



she needs to go to a doctor (specialist) for female problems and commented she would have to spend the night. its two hours from my house and four from her appartment.
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Old 01-05-2010, 05:25 PM   #48 (permalink)
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well today i just found out she has had sex with some other guy. i'm numb she hasn't served me yet. anyone got a clue where i should go from here?
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