12-20-2009, 09:37 PM
Join Date: Apr 2009
| | Re: made contact with the no contact!!!
Sometimes when you do no contact the "cage door" is open. They look around and try out the new life and find that it's not all that they imagined. No one (you) are chasing them anymore. Reality begins to surface.
Even when reality begins to surface, it doesn't mean they will return. My husband hasn't and still thinks I am his problem. He won't turn inward until the divorce Jan. 6th. Then, he will begin to questions himself. The divorce has been his focus.