Re: Facebook and Marriage
If you don't understand the point I'm making and have to explain it too you then you probably won't "Get it".
It's not trying to be intrusive. But if your wife/gf has her phone to the hip and turns the screen down religiously then that shows a lack of transparency. Never telling your spouse where your going or who was at the company happy hour is not being transparent. Getting a text from an ex bf/gf
It's much more subtle than you are portraying. Holland is correct when stating that in good relationships transparency just happens naturally.
My personal view is if you have to hide communication from your partner something is wrong if it's about your relationship or with an opposite sex friend.
Wow. Some couples are now requiring "transparency" as a means to justify intrusive behavior. So glad I'm not part of that! Lol
Sent from my Dodge Ram SRT10