I have been hurt by my husband.
My husband initially argued I was over-reacting and he didnot do anything wrong. the relationship was very damaged. my mother was the first one to sense it. And asked me what was wrong. By then it was almost 10 days of tears, no proper sleep and no proper food. I was feeling terrible.
I could not hold it to myself for long time. I shared my pain with her. My mom spoke to my husband. She told him, he can consider her as his mom and speak his heart out. If there were any issues she told him we can sort it out. He told her there was nothing wrong. He told her maybe unintentionally I hurt her. I did not mean it. He said he was sorry. My mom told him, to sort it out with me if he is sorry. She said its nice he realizes the mistake.
But even after two days he didnot speak to me. He didnot say he was sorry. I was still in pain. My mom was in touch with him and she asked him why he wasn't doing anything. He said he doesn't know what to do. He continued to aruge I am over-reacting. "It was a small mistake not a sin. Why am I being forced to feel terrible?" My mom told him that is wrong. If he feels she is being partial to me then she suggested he speak to his parents for advice. Initially he was hesitating but later he spoke to his parents. And then they told him, it was a very big mistake. "Whether you do it intentionally or unintentionally you did a mistake. Say sorry to your wife and ask for forgiveness" these were the words from his mom.
She said sorry to me. He said sorry to me. But again after a week, he says he doesn't feel it is a mistake. I simply stopped talking to him. Now he says that was his frustration. He says he agrees it was wrong.
What do I do? How can I heal, when he doesn't even help me?
Last edited by Dr.betrayed; 12-30-2009 at 11:48 PM.