Where can I begin? My husband & I have been dating for almost ten years when we got married in 2006. He was my 1st love and still is the love of my life. Our marriage was just fine up until a year ago, we both knew from the start that he wanted kids, I on the other hand wanted to wait a few years. Since I work long hours and wasn't ready to have kids just yet. So as soon as we got married I started taking the pill, many times I felt he was upset about me taking them, and many times he tried to get me off them, but I just ignored him. Then all of a sudden, he had walked away from the subject of having kids, like he had given up.
Last December I stopped taking the pill, and am now trying for a baby, but he is not co-operating. We do have sex regularly, don't see any problems there, (but he just won't help out in that area: confused
Lately, he has become more distant from me and has told me several times that he wants a divorce. That hurts me so much, cause I love him dearly. We still have the same relationship that we had when we first got married, we still hang out together, talk to each other, have a few laughs,but he just doesn't desire me like he used to. He himself has told me that he doesn't love me anymore (but deep down inside him I know he still has some feeling for me), I acknowledge that now, that I failed to meet his needs. I know I was selfish, I was only thinking of myself and my career and totally ignored him. But I'm willing to fix my marriage, I will not give up on him.He has provided me with everything that a wife needs,both financially and emotionally. I'm so lucky to have him for a husband, and in return I rejected him and he does not feel appreciated.
I have told him that I do want kids now and that I'm ready, but he says it's too late, that I've broken his heart, he no longer wants to have kids with me, because he was rejected so many times.
How can I convince my husband that it's not too late. Guys and gals Please help. I don't know what to do