Re: If You Were Accused of Infidelity
you dont need permission to have an affair do it if it is what you think will make you happy. but know that having an affair is selfish and inconsiderate. so are you in love with your wife? or do you just love her? if you just love her then love her enough to let her go because it would tear her apart more to know that you went somewhere else for intimate pleasure and then coming home like nothing happened. to be in a healthy marriage i believe that there are no secerets and you dont have to like each other everyday but if it came down to it you would never seek someone else. there are 2 sides to every story. I have found that my sexless marriage is due to my emotional needs that arent being met as well as i am not ready for another child and he is.. so i am repulsed with the idea that he wants sex and this sex is going to lead to something im not ready for. and this has gone on for at least 9 months or so. so consider what your wife is going through not everything is about what you want (sorry for being so harsh), but honestly put yourself in your wife shoes for a change and not just mentally, try living in her shoes for a while do the dishes make the dinner do the laundry clean the house take care of the kid and go to work then wake up and do it everyday 7/24/365, then listen to you (the husband) what you/he say/s and your/his actions. its honestly overwhelming just reading this. maybe you do this and props for you but if you dont then you should reconsider your actions.
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