07-11-2012, 05:22 PM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | Re: The Green eyed moster
I'm not sure if it could help, so I want to state that upfront. This is nothing more than my opinion.
When he starts talking about other women, what does he do if you start talking about other men? Only do it when he does. Sometimes I think men like to manipulate reactions from women when they do that. So, by reversing the situation, he'll get a little taste of his own medicine.
My first move would be to find out why he's wanting the divorce. Is it over a potential situation, or one that is already ongoing? Happily married men shouldn't be stringing other women along, either, not even "just in case."
If he's holding your previous mental health issues against you, I would consent to it. That is absolutely cruel. It's never a good idea to have cruel people in your life.
You need to ensure he isn't one of those individuals who are so self-centered, they have no capacity for sympathy for anyone else. If he is, get away sooner, rather than later.