Hubby texting co-worker.... - Page 2

happilymarried67 · 05-13-2008, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by TheMrs1982

Whatever! I told him I'm here, I've been here, but if he gonna let them start to control his time... i'm gonna start doing my own thing during our time.

Is that really fixing a problem or making it into another one? I don't know, what happened to making a phone call? I do however feel sorry for him that he is on call for the company 24/7.

TheMrs1982 · 05-13-2008, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by happilymarried67

Is that really fixing a problem or making it into another one? I don't know, what happened to making a phone call? I do however feel sorry for him that he is on call for the company 24/7.

I think that another problem will occur because ultimately we won't be spending our time with one another if I start doing my own thing... I know that's imature on my part. What can I do?

I just realized something ironic, while he's working he always texting me and when he's home he's always texting his co-workers... that's weird.

I again thank you all, I feel like since I was able to talk about this with others besides my husband that I am not so upset and bothered about it anymore. I want to be able to resolve this in a positive, I can only hope that this issuse will lead to something good in the relationship instead of something bad. I know we have it good right being that we are still early in the marriage and we were young 23 and 24(him), I pray that we can stay that way and grow stronger together.

draconis · 05-13-2008, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by TheMrs1982

I just realized something ironic, while he's working he always texting me and when he's home he's always texting his co-workers... that's weird.

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Can you use that to your advantage, such as when he is home since he seems adicted to texting have him text you, or cyber sex text you back and forth?

draconis

True Blue · 05-15-2008, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by happilymarried67

Trust your intuition. You are suspicious for a reason. I could be wrong, but he doesn't seem like he has made that commitment to you. He states, "he wouldn't get jealous if you were txting another guy." It seems to me that he doesn't care very much about the relationship. If my husband did that or I did that, then there is a deep problem in the marriage. I text my hubby frequently during the day, sending love and lust notes through the day so that he knows that I think about him often and want him. It shouldn't be up to another woman to take your place with him in any aspect of the marriage. He shouldn't be texting other woman. That is just wrong. I don't trust what he is up too. What starts as innocent may not stay that way. I've seen it many times. Trust you instincts.