Re: Domestic Abuse.
I am feeling so messed up, he kissed me so passionately just now, told me he'll be up to bed soon. total turn around. I've told him he's hurting me, cold & distant & now this.
I'd spoken to Womens aid tonight, told them I felt ashamed to say I was back but feeling it was a mistake.
now he's giving me the come on. The Freedom Prog I did via Women's Aid works on the different aspects of a abuser - ie The Dominator, the sexual controller, forces sex, demands or he can with hold sex & intimacy. I've had the demanding, he'd switched to with holding, I get to feeling I should leave & he's wanting me. I've cried.
I don't know where I am with him. sorry I know the confusion is all part of it.
he's been staring into space biting his lip clutching his hands together so tight his fingers are red & knuckles are white.