I'm new to this marriage forum. I need some advice about what to do about my husband.
We've been married just over 7 months now, but were together for 3 years before we got married.
Since we've been married, I've noticed that he's very, or rather, not very interested in me touching him. When I try to touch him, he shoos my hands away, or he moves away, or just pretty much indicates by his actions that he doesn't want to be touched.
We had discussions about this before. It's not like I'm grabbing his package, or anything like that. Usually I'm just touching his arm, or his back or something like that. It really hurts my feelings when he does this, and when I press the matter, he states that it's because he's ticklish. It seems like it's pretty random/convenient for him, because there's times when it doesn't bother him at all, and other times where he won't let me touch him at all.
What should I do? I'm really starting to get a complex about it, and I don't think it's fair that he thinks it's fine for him to feel me up whenever he wants to, but I can't even touch his arm? What the frig is that? At the same time, I'm very tired of arguing with him about the same issue over and over again.
It's always the same thing, and finally I give in, and he's happy, and I'm left saddened and feeling like I'm disgusting or something, because he doesn't even want me to touch him.