Re: A little info from the Ladies please.
You have to get your wife to communicate with you Thound, she will be getting absolutely nothing out of the sex that you are having, and if she's getting nothing out of it she's not going to be very enthusiastic about the whole thing. She needs foreplay if she's going to enjoy it. You need to try and find out why she doesn't want foreplay and try to encourage her to have some foreplay, just a little at a time. When your sex life was better before she became distant what foreplay did she like? The lack of a satisfying sex life will only increase the distance between you, if you can encourage intimacy with her, you will become closer.