07-07-2010, 01:01 PM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Re: Should I chase after her or give her space?
Well, I think one month is kind of a long time to cool off if this was just a serious argument. Here are a couple of suggestions, not knowing some of the specifics:
1. If you are being semi-ridiculous in your attempt to contact her (greater than 1-2 times/day), you need to back off. Begging and groveling never got anyone anywhere. If you have been trying to reach her that 1-2 times per day, try 1-2 days without trying to contact her.
2. How close are you to her parents or other family members? Can you call them for insight/help?
3. I would not drive all the way to FL without a plan. Think through details like - would you let her or her family know you are coming?, what are you going to say and do?,etc.
4. Those are your kids too, and legally, she can't just disappear indefinately. You have a legal right to see your own kids. If she is serious about separation or divorce, you need to get an attorney.
Hope these tidbits help. Good luck!