own a vibrator?? I was just curious, my wife never had one until I used a massager on her when we first got married. Since then I bought her a vibrator. The other day I ended up buying her a "replacement" she was very happy,since the old one had been worn out, (burnt out motor) yes I am serious. She has the Hitachi Magic wand. I know some men get jealous of vibrators, but I always felt every woman should own one. My wife always thought of them as dirty, or bad she was raised a good catholic girl. But she found out the difference and now LOVES it. I was also sick for a month were we could not have sex...it came in very handy for her.
So do most of you women have one? or you afraid to own one? Does hubby know you ahve one or do you keep it "private" Just curious? to what women think.
Let's see, I've been married since 1996 and am on my 5th or 6th vibrator in the mean-time. Actually have a duo, but I won't go there.
Hubby knows about them, but they are mine and don't play a role in our time together.
I can honestly say that for my own personal sexuality they became a blessing. I could never climax that easily until I started figuring out with them exactly what I needed where and when. And now during intercourse it is much easier for me to climax
You've started some interesting threads here GA, looking forward to the next survey
i own two, most of the females i know have a stack ful, i go to ann summers nites out every few months.
my hubby loves it. he uses it on me and i have used it on my own. we both have extreme fun.
Awhile back I got it in my mind that the wife would enjoy having a vibrator. so I bought her a pink bunny type of toy.
She about hit the roof. She was mad! She went off on me about how perverted it was for me to do such a thing. She didn't want to use it with me or alone (so she said).
She was the type of woman who denies masturbating too.
Anyway, I didn't press too often, but I did ask her months later if she ever used it. see, it had never been tossed. She got mad at me for asking.
But I also figured that her strenuous reaction to it meant something. So I did something a bit silly. I reversed the batteries.
Three days later, there were fresh batteries.
I guess we now have a don't ask, don't tell policy going on.
She masturbates with the pink bunny vibrator in private and never wants to use it when we are together. She gets to act "superior" about solo activities. See, she doesn't need to masturbate -- that's her line anyway.
And I don't call BS on her since she'd just deny it.
Hmmm, maybe it's time to change the batteries around again.
Awhile back I got it in my mind that the wife would enjoy having a vibrator. so I bought her a pink bunny type of toy.
She about hit the roof. She was mad! She went off on me about how perverted it was for me to do such a thing. She didn't want to use it with me or alone (so she said).
She was the type of woman who denies masturbating too.
Anyway, I didn't press too often, but I did ask her months later if she ever used it. see, it had never been tossed. She got mad at me for asking.
But I also figured that her strenuous reaction to it meant something. So I did something a bit silly. I reversed the batteries.
Three days later, there were fresh batteries.
I guess we now have a don't ask, don't tell policy going on.
She masturbates with the pink bunny vibrator in private and never wants to use it when we are together. She gets to act "superior" about solo activities. See, she doesn't need to masturbate -- that's her line anyway.
And I don't call BS on her since she'd just deny it.
Hmmm, maybe it's time to change the batteries around again.
Your story really made me laugh haha.
I personally have a few, only let hubby in on it recently (he was surprised I had more than 1), hoping that one day he'll feel adventurous and want to try them out on me.
I personally have a few, only let hubby in on it recently (he was surprised I had more than 1), hoping that one day he'll feel adventurous and want to try them out on me.
I try to use humor about the situation, but i am a bit disappointed that she has to put on a front about using the vibrator. I would be very glad if she wanted me to use it on her.
In a way, I think the idea of that level of intimacy, doing something together that a part of her feels hung up about (early training, etc.) is too threatening for her.
I have one. I don't use by myself. I like for the anticipation to build! We use it together. We use it sometimes to just get me going. Sometimes we use it when he wants sex from a certain angle and other areas need stimulating so I can enjoy it too. I really don't see anything wrong with the way we use it because it's not taking the focus off us and I don't use it in place of anything.
i must say michzz you had me in stitches with your reversed battery story.
but see what detective work can do.
i enjoy my vibrator, but im not into the ones with added bits on.
but i agree with theluckiest 08, there you dont get better than the real thing.
99.9 % of the time i do have an orgasm through sex, but get it right and you can do on a vibrator.
i think these toys are important when having fun, exploring eachother.
I try to use humor about the situation, but i am a bit disappointed that she has to put on a front about using the vibrator. I would be very glad if she wanted me to use it on her.
In a way, I think the idea of that level of intimacy, doing something together that a part of her feels hung up about (early training, etc.) is too threatening for her.
Hide it and say you throw it away because she never uses it anyways. LOL. No you are better off with the changing stuff.
buy one for yourself and shock your husband.
he will have a shock. dont wait, just claim why wait.
by the time he does buy it , lets say 6 months. and lets say you enjoy it. youve wasted 6 months of extra fun.
how many of you women....
