07-07-2008, 04:14 PM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Bored out my MIND
My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years, together for almost 9. We have a 1 year old son together. We have been through two deployments to Iraq and other small separations due to the military. We are a great team, a great partnership and we are the best of friends. So what is wrong with us?
I am so bored and have been for almost 3 years. We have been "working on it" and even had my son thinking it would help. Here we sit, a year later, more distant than ever. We go on dates, we go out with friends, and we spend time alone. We never have sex unless we are drinking and I can't stand that. I am a very sexual person and would like to have sex a lot more than once a week or once a month.
I am ready to separate and he is unahppy too. We just don't know what to do. Do we go to counseling or do we separate?