09-25-2010, 12:44 PM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Re: advise
It seems like there is more going on than the fact that you don't like the small town.
I'm a bit old fashioned, but I believe as a family, you are a team, and you should make those sorts of decisions together, so you both know what to expect and what the negotiation is. As an example, if you guys set down ground rules that you would be in that town for a year, because there aren't jobs elsewhere, then after a year, you should talk about what's next.
The domestic violence stuff I have very strong feelings about, and I would not tolerate it from either side. It is a giant cause for concern. In front of the kids is a felony. Clear as day.