Re: Swinging Wives
My husband and I started swinging earlier this year to add some spice to our life and to try and help with some ED medical issues - while it hasn't really solved the ED problem, it has added spice.
And...I'm the ONE who suggested it and started the ball rolling, not him...so yes I do enjoy it. The best part for me is watching him have fun (when he can) - that's where I get the most pleasure from, but I participate sometimes too and have a good time also, and, most importantly - it hasn't changed our relationship at all, from any standpoint thus far.
So for me - I have no issues with it and my husband hasn't expressed any either. Now - we've only participated with single partners and not a couple yet, but I don't think my viewpoint would change at all.
I would think if she wasn't really into it, why would she do it? Could a wife truly fake that she supports this kind of lifestyle while she watched her husband have sex with someone else? I couldn't, but, I'm not her...and for this long? I doubt it.