Join Date: May 2008
Location: south wales. uk
Re: Husband doesn't show me attention but openly flirts with other women
hi, i havent had the touchy bits that you say your hubby does, but i have had experiences where hubby talks sexual, and looking at other women. well its simply a very uneasy situation they put you in.
half the time he says he doesnt know hes doing it.
i had to tell him of when i caught him talking to our 18 yr old babysitter. ( this ws a few yrs ago) . i told him he ws disgusting and i dont do it with him, so pack it in.
leave a man with another female and they think its an invitation .
so dont let him get in that situation.
we have another sitter now and i dont leave the room. im going to be honest but its not just the men thinking sexually, its the girls as well. n e bit of attention and men fall for it. they think its fun.
my hubby is a carpenter and this yr got a card of one of his clients. a female who implied in her card for my hubby to stop looking at her tits, best part of this ws hubby kept this card in car and i found it a month later. i flipped my bloody lid.
he said forgot it there, but he is quick enough to remind me of my past.
this yr has been a bad yr for us, he had a one night stand. so were recovering from that.
i know this sounds odd, but i do cruise holidays with my family and my hubby, picks up languages quickly. after our second cruise he bought a book to write down the lingo.
ok this ws stuff from 3 yrs ago , but i remember some things being said on our last cruise in may 08. some are easy to remember , although i did not know what they meant.
as my hubby is speaking to the girls, im sitting there like a plank whilst hes telling the girls there really pretty. ( romanian)
well the notebook was used by me, and only by chance i stumbled across all this really naughty talk.
i told him i cant take this n e more. this is inappropriate behaviour from a married man and yes it is,
i dont do his actions. but i have said no more. i wil not accept no more and i wont. i think ive taken to much over this past yr.
and its time to let go if it continues. as long as it stops that fine.