12-26-2010, 06:11 PM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: Nervous to have sex !
Originally Posted by Jeep73170
I pose this question to the females as I hope to get some insight.
I am a man, and may be single for the first time in very long time ( 25+ years ), and I am nervous as to having sex with women. I am 110% heterosexual, never ever had sex with a man, but I haven't kissed a women in years , and sex hasn't happened in a very long while also . I am concerned that not having any recent activity that I may not perform as well as I would want. This thought bothers me.
If a man told you he was nervous to have sex would you laugh @ him ?
What would your expectations be ?
What would you do ?
I would not laugh, but I would have questions similar to what Catherine asked. I would definetely find it VERY ODD for any single/sexless man to not enjoy some form of porn/naked women with his masterbation.
MY biggest concern would be --Does he have a viable sex drive?
I think all men with a decent drive in such a situation would be too tempted to stay away. It is a driving force for many.
Curious to why you do not indulge yourself ? Religious beliefs? Are you not temped?
Are your sole fantasies conjured in your head enough during masterbation? If you are not masterbating regularly, you need to start!!!! This will only be a PLUS for your future sex life. Good for your prostate & the more you use it, keeping the blood flowing, the better chance you will be able to KEEP using it. It is an organ that MUST & should be forever exercised !
Do you wake up with morning erections? If yes- GREAT! Or have trouble getting them during masterbation?-If no, the plumbing is fine. But you may struggle with "Performace Pressure". Even some Viagra can help you over this. One great thing about it >> it is not addicting , your body does not become conditioned too it. It has helped even some younger men get over some performace pressure & once built up some confidence, never needed it again.
Last edited by SimplyAmorous; 12-26-2010 at 06:20 PM.