Since my marriage began to unravel I started a blog about the whole ordeal. We are now separated and have little contact with each other. Recently I learned that I can track who views my blog with what browser and operating system. Since my wife uses her iPhone nearly 80% of the time to surf the web (and I don't know anyone else that would follow my blog so closely) I can see she accesses the blog often.
My question to all you dear ladies is why would she be so interested? It does reference her from time to time, but accessing it 3 to 4 times a day? 13 times yesterday. It's been more since she's out of town without access to computer. But still...
Im trying not to think it's because she cares. She's made it quite clear that she's done with our marriage and says so to anyone that asks. Any ideas? Posted via Mobile Device
She could be checking up to see if you're seeing another woman? Maybe hoping that you're crumbling without her, or the opposite, checking that you're okay after the seperation. She might be watching for comments on the blog that reference her too.
Do you mind her viewing?
You have to ignore what they say and focus on what they do. She's saying that she isn't interested in you, but her actions very clearly show that she is fixated on you.
Perhaps start reading my blog. Added yours to my feed reader.
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She could be checking up to see if you're seeing another woman? Maybe hoping that you're crumbling without her, or the opposite, checking that you're okay after the seperation. She might be watching for comments on the blog that reference her too.
Do you mind her viewing?
Naw I don't mind her reading. I'm just confused why so much? Today so far is 10 times by an iPhone. She has 3 people she knows that have iPhones and I'm certain they may have read through it, but I know them and I don't see them accessing my blog everyday over a half dozen times... Posted via Mobile Device
Anybody here using an iPhone? Because it just spiked to 22 hits today lol. This is going to throw my powers of deductions out the window Posted via Mobile Device
Don't listen to anyone who would tell you that she's reading b/c she cares. That's a maybe, maybe not scenario. Could be she's just flat out nosey and wants to know what you're writing about, especially if she sees her name in there.
And by all means, if you want to know about women, ask a man. They know EVERYTHING.
Nosey I can understand for that she is - this I do know. But accessing the same blog numerous times a day seems a bit excessive. One post a day is the norm for me. Twice maybe. Any more is very rare. My entries get too lengthy. It's not like I have allot of followers to leave many comments. Posted via Mobile Device
Maybe it's the fact that it IS a lengthy blog that has piqued her interest. And I wasn't referring to you as knowing everything. Those that do, know who they are. They're only too happy to tell you so. That's why I stay out of the Men's room.
But really..there really isn't any way of knowing for sure if she's just being curious, or if there might be a little something there. I personalized this, and if my ex had written a blog, I'd have checked it repeatedly. But there were a lot of reasons for me to do so. And I sure didn't feel anything for him anymore.
Are you brave enough to ASK her why she visits your blog so much? Just to see what she says? (I'm really not trying to imply that you're not a brave man...but it would take courage to ask an almost ex this kind of question, imho) Then again, she'd know you're on to her if you asked her about it. What to do, what to do?
Remove your blog, get a new one that she would never know, so she can't read it and make it a topic to laugh about with friends. Posted via Mobile Device
Remove your blog, get a new one that she would never know, so she can't read it and make it a topic to laugh about with friends. Posted via Mobile Device
No, she wouldn't do that. She's a very private woman and she's not really a spiteful one as well. It shows to some degree what pages are being accessed. She's not looking at the bad posts, but mostly the positive ones. If she was accessing certain pages like the "Fond Memories" ones I would have a better idea. Posted via Mobile Device
Btw, she wanted the separation or you? You can read most threads here how women described their husbands when they're either separated or going through divorce.
Very little chance that you will find their comments positive. So your blog is written about her, of course she would check if you back stabbing her. It could be a topic for her to criticise & laugh with her friends.
If she cares about make the marriage work, she would try a much better approach.
So, you might want to remove it and create a new one. Posted via Mobile Device
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If you were married for a long time, she definitely still cares. By "caring" you can understand that she's still interested in what's going on with your life.
If i were in her shoes...hypothetically, i'd check my husband's blog often as well, for starters because i'd need to know how he actually saw things. When people bottle up, they stop telling you things. You rarely find out why things went wrong. You just have to deal with the fact that it went wrong. So having a personal blog of that person at hand, you can find out more about them and what they went through.
Plus i don't believe year long relationships can just be broken when people chose to divorce. They generally still care about each other, somewhere deep down. They just understand that the marriage doesn't work or something along those lines.
Another scenario might be that she's exceptionally curious about what you'll say about her and whether you'll bad mouth her. Could be other things but i can't think of any others.
I don't think I would be interested in checking my ex's stuff if I am not interested in him. I want to know that he is fine and happy, but I only need to do it once in a while.
She might still be interested in you, she might still feel for you, she might still be attached to you, she misses you!
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