12-28-2010, 09:59 PM
Join Date: Dec 2009
| | Do you have a black hole in your marriage?
We have been married 27 years. If you remove the core of the relationship consisting of ...intamacy....sex...comunication...the relationship is good. We work well together, we have raised sucessful children, we travel and anjoy each other's company, we have a beautiful home and friends. But for all intents and purposes, our sex life is nonexistant, no intimacy, and when we discuss the black hole, no communication. It is a black hole in the middle of our marriage and the rest of our marriage is slowly sliding into the hole.
I have tried to explain this many times, and like "Day Late and a Dollar Short" he doesn't take it seriously. Now I am serious about getting a divorce. I copied "Day Late & Dollar Short" for him to read. I doubt it will make much differenct. I am like Dollar Short's wife. I have nothing left to give.
Can we come back from this? How? Any suggestion will be appreciated.