I REALLY love mu husband and he loves me too. We respect each other's opinions as well. he is now searching new jobs for himself (for whatever reasons). I know he needs a better job because his present job really really sucks(REALLY!!) and he does not even see any growth for himself there. most of his colleagues have moved on too
I am doing some planning to apply to grad school in my area. He knows that very well and he even knows the amount of hard work I am putting in for the application. Still, he is applying to jobs outside our city. We are in NY now. Is this not selfish of him? I'm hating him for this and am not able to concentrate on my applications etc. I spent so much time(infact few months) researching programs that would suit my interest and our budget. A new city means, I need to start over again with all this and who knows my program of interest may not even be available there.
What should I do? I'm losing sleep and peace of mind over this.
The option of both of us staying separately during my course is ruled out because neither can we live like that(yeah, i will miss him) nor will it suit our financial situation.
LAdies(and men), please give me some inputs. I'm so so stressed out. I feel that he is an insensitive,selfish MAN but in my heart I love him.
Thanks for reading through.
I am doing some planning to apply to grad school in my area. He knows that very well and he even knows the amount of hard work I am putting in for the application. Still, he is applying to jobs outside our city. We are in NY now. Is this not selfish of him? I'm hating him for this and am not able to concentrate on my applications etc. I spent so much time(infact few months) researching programs that would suit my interest and our budget. A new city means, I need to start over again with all this and who knows my program of interest may not even be available there.
What should I do? I'm losing sleep and peace of mind over this.
The option of both of us staying separately during my course is ruled out because neither can we live like that(yeah, i will miss him) nor will it suit our financial situation.
LAdies(and men), please give me some inputs. I'm so so stressed out. I feel that he is an insensitive,selfish MAN but in my heart I love him.
Thanks for reading through.