02-05-2011, 12:14 PM
Join Date: Sep 2010
| | Re: Ladies, do we have too much love to give?
1. Used to ignore it and let the unhappiness accumulate. Now I bring it up and communicate with my husband. It helped clear up misunderstandings.
2. I used to turn to online affairs and chat. Not getting into any real physical stuffs. Suddenly, I crushed on a man. I chatted with him for 2 years and wrote him tons of love letters, a total of 3 years, I only chatted with him. Now I turn to my husband because he's much more willing to meet my needs, but I just need to whine a bit about it, then he quickly comes.
Conclusion, there're some needs my husband can never fulfill but because they're not a must so it doesn't make me feel wanting to turn to the OM anymore.
Hell, I don't know how to take care of myself when my needs are not fulfilled by my husband.
I used to musterbate a lot, which is one kind of taking care I guess.
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