Yes I do work. I work at a Motel and everyone is able to visit me when i do work. I'm close to my kids. They even started there first job with me. My son is 17. He is the last of 4 kids.
It don't matter what my son does. he is always wrong. Like for example. My husband bought a used jeep. He and my son went to pick it up. No problem. My son put gas in it. and drove it home. The problem is, and I'm not happy with my son. is he lost the only key to the jeep. But He looked for days for it, He went to the dealers to see if the could order a new key, He was trying hard to fix his mistake. but my husband only sees he lost the key. If he lost it. it would be a different story.
my son asked my husband to go fishing, he just turned away.
his son hours latter asked and it was yes lets go.
I enjoy his kids alot. I treat them no different. or I try not to.
and my husband is a great guy. half the time.
He wants these rules that are for 12 year olds. I said rules are great. But lets get real. they have to be by 8pm? The boys have girlfriends and they are going to spend a lot of time with them. understandable. right?
They do things when they are asked to do things.
but when my husband plays this game of
there gone and he runs to my and complains about what they did not do or what they did and it was the wrong way.
to me he is playing me against my kids.
we do, do things together. shopping. cookouts. birthdays. ect.
and we have fun.
Thank last a week and it is back to mood changes.
I don't let things get to me. If the kids take the garbage out, or do the dishes. laundry. clean the house. I'm happy.
He don't see that as good things, I don't understand.
all this is pushing me away from him.
We lived togeter for four and a half years, before i would marry him. He works full time. He was great with the kids before we were married.
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what am i doing wrong?
