Probably should have done this first, but hey.. ooops. Since I am a lady, I figured why not here.
Anyway... I am a mid 30's (OMG) single mom, full time student... OMG just months away from cap and gown (OMG again.. so much to do in such a short time)
Never been married, though I do know the serious relationship and I think I have some good insight. Also... though my hair is not the same color it once was... I hope to be married someday so why not get some advice before the fact right?
I am bluntly honest, I know that, so don't take me as harsh, just honest. I will always try to be equally honest about myself, and probably much harder on myself. I am also in love with Jersey sarcasm.. just a warning.
I am revently out of what was a serious relationship that lasted a few years... but was based on either deception, or one party being absolutely clueless as to who they are, and to afraid or lazy to be who they wanted to be... still undecided there.
I may be too logical for human consumption.. that will become evident, but somehow, for all my realism... I am still a hopeless romantic (just not as expected I think).
I know one member of this forum extremely well, but I will let that become obvious as I am sure it will happen sooner than later (won't be a bad thing, I swear... not like an ex or anything) This person suggested I come here, probably to gain insight and find a place to share some of my frustrations over past failures, hoping for a future success story.
Anything else anyone wants to know... Just ask.. I am better at asnwering questions than trying to explain vaguely... and I am pretty much an open book.. can't say there is a defined line with what I am willing to reveal about myself, or at least I haven't found it yet.
I think you may find out, if you know my friend, that you will quickly realize that you know at least a bit about myself.. In fact I know I have been thrown into conversation here... HAHA Happy hunting LOL