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Old 09-08-2008, 08:19 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Ladies poll: What turns you on about a man?

Hi,

Since it's so hard to figure you all out, set aside the fact that you are married...what turns you on the most about men?
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Old 09-09-2008, 07:54 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Kindheartedness. Being around someone who cares more for others than themselves fills me with warmth. I think it's that same notion of women being turned on by seeing their hubby interact with the children. Also, I know it's cliche', but a sense of humor has always been a must for me. In my dating years, no matter how good looking a guy was, if he couldn't make me laugh or at least keep up with me and my jokes, he was history!
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Old 09-09-2008, 10:41 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Physical strength and a kind heart. Nothing like having a big burly man cuddling you. It makes me feel safe and girly.

As far just physical appearance, strong, broad shoulders and a pleasing face. I prefer big men so I like a nice thick jawline.

As far as personality, confidence in one's self, especially if they are the strong silent type and happiness. I don't care if he's a potato farmer or someone famous, I want him to be happy with who he is and what he does and take pride is doing it.
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Old 09-09-2008, 01:32 PM   #4 (permalink)
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that hubby doesnt smoke. (stopped before we met) . years ago if id met a bloke that smoked- id dump him real quick.
so things were meant to be.
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Old 09-09-2008, 02:33 PM   #5 (permalink)
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A hard worker and beautiful honest eyes!! A cute backside is always a plus. When my hubby gives me those eyes and that smile, I melt, even after 20 years.
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Old 09-11-2008, 09:43 AM   #6 (permalink)
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at the moment anything!!!!!!
cant believe how turned on iam at the moment! god pregnancy sucks! llol )
a good honest strong man that can make me laugh if they can make me laugh then am happy!!
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Old 09-11-2008, 02:22 PM   #7 (permalink)
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at the moment anything!!!!!!
cant believe how turned on iam at the moment! god pregnancy sucks! llol )
a good honest strong man that can make me laugh if they can make me laugh then am happy!!
The best our sex life ever had been was during pregnancy. Good stuff!!!
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Old 09-11-2008, 07:11 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Honesty and confidence.

Physically a man with broad shoulder and strong arms. I like men who are taller and in good shape. With eyes that could suck you in and make you melt. Thankfully my fiance has all of these. And a cute butt too!

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Old 09-12-2008, 07:20 PM   #9 (permalink)
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i must say that any kind of romantic, nice, sweet, or naughty note sent my way is what can really put me in the mood! it just shows that he's into me! i love it!
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Genuine and calm/positive demeanor
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Old 09-15-2008, 04:26 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Smile is one of the first things that draws me to a man. I like VERY tall men with a nice smile and someone who can make me laugh =)
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Old 09-17-2008, 04:03 AM   #12 (permalink)
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martino,

let me tell you that every girl will have her own image of wild wonderful knight that arouse her like no other, it just depends on the different personalities

SO I'm gonna say that I love strong not very romantic military type of guy. On the other hand, bluebutterfly0808 said she likes romantice and sweet guys.

so really, all depends on a girl personality .. its a guy job to find out what his girl likes XD!!
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Old 09-21-2008, 12:49 AM   #13 (permalink)
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What turns me on the most is....when a man is very confident of himself...not arrogant....but confident. very comfortable with himself...not conceited either.....oh yeah...soft manly cologne....awwwwwwwww....I love that...or if he can speak another language...and if he looks like johnny depp....lol...just kidding.

But yeah...it's the confidence that I like the most.
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Old 09-25-2008, 02:37 PM   #14 (permalink)
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cute butt, strong arms, nice smile, bedroom eyes... all wonderful.

BUT... give me a man who wants me, desires me and shows it! That makes me melt everytime.
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