Ladies, I have plans to up and leave the house with our 3 year old daughter. My husband has cheated on me over and over again since the 5 years we have been married. I have always taken him back and tried to work on this marriage. When it happened again back in December, I realized that I can't try to rebuild the trust over and over again. He is such a drain in my life. I have a Masters degree and a career and I feel that I'm better off without him.
I plan on getting a rental for my daughter and I, and will leave when he is out of town for work. I just need to be away from him and he won't leave the house. He knows I want a divorce, but he doesn't think I will leave. In the meantime he is really going out of his way to piss me off. It's pretty childish and I need to get away from him. I had consulted a lawyer and she said it's okay for me to leave and whether I have to pay him money for the mortgage is a gamble with the courts. Usually the courts won't push it if there is no equity in the home. Due to this economy our home is not worth much and would cost us to sell. I plan to put the house on the market and hope to at least break even in a sell. I'd really like to get our divorce done through mediation and with help from our church marriage counsellor.
Anyone have any thoughts or advice on what I am about to do?
I plan on getting a rental for my daughter and I, and will leave when he is out of town for work. I just need to be away from him and he won't leave the house. He knows I want a divorce, but he doesn't think I will leave. In the meantime he is really going out of his way to piss me off. It's pretty childish and I need to get away from him. I had consulted a lawyer and she said it's okay for me to leave and whether I have to pay him money for the mortgage is a gamble with the courts. Usually the courts won't push it if there is no equity in the home. Due to this economy our home is not worth much and would cost us to sell. I plan to put the house on the market and hope to at least break even in a sell. I'd really like to get our divorce done through mediation and with help from our church marriage counsellor.
Anyone have any thoughts or advice on what I am about to do?