03-07-2011, 02:21 PM
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: SE Wisconsin
| | Re: The Change
I really do not want to make you feel bad, but the likely truth is that she is not sexually attracted to you vs. a general decline of her libido. Put her in a room with a ready and willing Brad Pitt (or her choice), and you'd find out pretty quick if she's really "lost" the drive.
Waiting isn't really a great strategy. You can make yourself more sexually attractive by changing any behaviors that make you appear weak to her--that is a total turn off for most women. I don't want to have sex with you if I feel like your mom, having to take care of you and your stuff. Do it yourself. And, flirt with her in a way that makes her feel sexual. Don't jump into "down and dirty" talk suddenly; change slowly and watch her reaction to see if it is working (but, give it time, too).