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View Poll Results: Women, what is your normal desire for sex?
Daily or more? 22 18.49%
5-6 times a week? 15 12.61%
3-5 times a week? 47 39.50%
1-2 times a week? 26 21.85%
1 time every two weeks? 2 1.68%
1 time every 3 weeks? 2 1.68%
1 time a month? 2 1.68%
Less than 1 time a month? 1 0.84%
Never want sex? 2 1.68%
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post #16 of 206 (permalink) Old 12-06-2014, 08:50 AM
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I don't think these results represent reality. Women who read forums and threads like these are likely more intrested in sex than the average woman so therefore the results get skewed.

Most normal women do not want sex 3-5 times a week or more.

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I don't think these results represent reality. Women who read forums and threads like these are likely more intrested in sex than the average woman so therefore the results get skewed.

Most normal women do not want sex 3-5 times a week or more.
Possibly, but my wife has never been on a forum and she fits into the 3-5 times a week category.

Poor thing, I'm injured right now and sex would just about kill me. I looked into her eyes last night and said 'you're horny as hell aren't you?" Her response softly "Yes"

Pulled out the vibes and an hour later she felt fine.
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I don't think these results represent reality. Women who read forums and threads like these are likely more intrested in sex than the average woman so therefore the results get skewed.

Most normal women do not want sex 3-5 times a week or more.
Only speaking for myself.. I have enjoyed forums for YEARS before I came here.. never entertained a sex forum (I was satisfied)... It WAS my insatiable sex drive /hormonal surge that got me posting HERE.. ...otherwise I think I would have fallen prey to seeking out porn sites... (awful thing to admit , isn't it !)...suddenly I felt like a Testosterone raging young man...

TAM was by far the healthier distraction...I was buying & reading so many books on sex, spicing, & the role of our Hormones -why MINE was surging while he was slowing down (I was thinking " I missed his best years!").... I felt I could contribute many things here.. it took the edge off...keeping my mind occupied while he was at work..

Before that spell I suppose I was average...always loved making love.. but wasn't paramount on the brain.. wasn't thinking about it , planning on jumping him when he walked through the door...

I got a real taste of how MEN FEEL , what they struggle with .....I suddenly had the greatest sympathy for hungry husbands...and realized how I hurt my H in the past, not "getting it".

Seems an unfair Joke the Gods play on us ...that men are in their sexual Prime in their early 20's...and many of us women don't hit our peak till 20 yrs later !
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Re: Women - what's your sex drive like?

Another "daily" preference here . I come close most weeks, probably 5-6 times, but sometimes life gets in the way of that goal!
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Re: Women - what's your sex drive like?

I'm allllmost 30.

5 times a week is perfect. 6 times if I can be totally selfish one of those days.
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3 votes in it sure is looking that way. Good god where do you horny women come from?
The honest truth? We've been here all along, but completely overlooked by most guys, who seem to be looking for other qualities entirely.

At least IME.
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My drive is surging these days, and I could easily go 2x a day. I dream of spending a weekend doing nothing but.

No chance, though, that he could manage that.

In calmer days 5-7 x a week would be plenty.
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The honest truth? We've been here all along, but completely overlooked by most guys, who seem to be looking for other qualities entirely.

At least IME.
The more i read on this site, the more i believe what I first learned here. She likely wants sex. Just not with you. Maybe the current non "300 movie" body and lack of six figures contributes to that.
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I voted 3-5 times a week but unfortunately it doesnt happen as often as I would like. Our sex life is very situational depending on our everyday life. Sometimes more tired, busier or more stressful then other times. But I keep saying quality over quantity right!
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The more i read on this site, the more i believe what I first learned here. She likely wants sex. Just not with you. Maybe the current non "300 movie" body and lack of six figures contributes to that.
Two thoughts:
Like men, women's drives vary considerably.

Also, I think you might be way off on the factors that cause the problem. Or you're just chasing the wrong women altogether.

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The more i read on this site, the more i believe what I first learned here. She likely wants sex. Just not with you. Maybe the current non "300 movie" body and lack of six figures contributes to that.




If you are stuck on the "oh she must not want sex because I don't make six figures" part, I can guarantee you that you've swallowed some BS someone fed you.

I've been HD since before anyone I knew even had a job, and it hasn't stopped since.
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I think about sex all the time.0

It's fun.
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A male - sometimes I just need rest, please.
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The more i read on this site, the more i believe what I first learned here. She likely wants sex. Just not with you.
I agree with this statement. I want sex. But I want it with my SO, not someone else. If he wasn't in the picture, I can tell you I definitely would not be clamoring for daily sex.

I am wildly attracted to him and thinking about him constantly gets me thinking about sex constantly .

I do think a lot of it (most of it, in fact) comes down to chemistry and attraction.

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I don't think these results represent reality. Women who read forums and threads like these are likely more intrested in sex than the average woman so therefore the results get skewed.

Most normal women do not want sex 3-5 times a week or more.
OK we get it, you don't like women. But just to get something straight, ALL women of ALL drives are normal, how bloody rude to say that women with high drives are not normal.

And FYI pretty much all of the women in my circle of friends and family have very healthy attitudes to sex and sex drives.

Try looking outside your own head and see the real world.
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