Re: I think my husband is leaving me...
The behaviour you mention is similar to that of my husband who started his affair online - it could be that your husband started up the relationship to get back at you (sounds like he was insecure to me) and it has taken a turn maybe even he didn't expect. In a loving, secure relationship, playing an online game shouldn't be a problem really as long as it didn't take over all of your time and you still showed him affection. I would, personally, let him go as if you fight to keep him he will be carrying a torch for the other person and feel resentment every time there is an issue between you. The decision has to be his or he will not buy into it. All the advice I have read is that the more you try and keep someone, the more they pull away from you. Ultimately, I wouldn't want to be with someone who had chosen someone else over me, however briefly, as I would always feel insecure with them and be feeling I had to behave to keep them with me.
Last edited by hippygirl39; 04-25-2011 at 09:04 PM.
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