thats just being lazy, i would be frustrated too. wait, i am. i married one of the biggest procrastinators in history. we celebrate kid birthdays several months late, she has piles of things everywhere she just doesnt have time to deal with, we have pictures leaning against wall because she can decide where to hang them, oh, and sex....we seem to put that off too
I think it's just being lazy too.
I do plenty of stuff I "don't want" to do, every day.
But to them, they just procrastinate - give them a break - they'll get to it.
Very, very aggravating and frustrating.
But I threw up my hands a long time ago - I have bigger fish to fry right now and it's just not important anymore.
My husband has 5 trucks/cars in various stages of restoration that he can never seem to complete. They've been in "that state" for about 6+ years. One of the neighbors even took pics and mailed them to our HOA who sent us the pics with a letter - thought we were running a used car lot.
You know what hubby said - sue me.
They are still in the exact same place they were when they sent the letter 2 years ago.
We have a deal though - he has his man cave, the garage and a storage unit in the backyard. He can do whatever he wishes with any of that space - the rest of it - I keep it organized and clean - you come to my house - you can definitely tell who is in charge of what space - his is cluttered - the rest is not.
I just turn a blind eye now...